Answer (1 of 21): There is a difference between men and women. When men break up with a woman it’s generally to get something they want, so men still care when they break up and the woman most likely has 3 chances to get him back and they’ll likely break up 3 more times before it’s over.. Feb 28, 2022 · 3)Non-verbal giveaways. Exes who pretend to be over you will give you obvious non-verbal signs that are hard to be overlooked. That’s because our bodies from head to toe react to our surroundings. They reflect our thoughts, desires, fears, and even insecurities..